We both know what you want: intense, explosive, life-changing orgasms. And while you love a quick stroke & shoot session, the best orgasms are often teased and edged repeatedly before the ultimate climax. A tantalizing cocktease is the perfect way to have a mind-blowing orgasm.
There are five stages of pleasure: arousal, the pleasure zone, riding the edge, orgasm, and the refractory period. Teasing is essential in all these steps to maximize the experience and increase satisfaction.
Cocktease To Build Pleasure
Arousal is the first stage of pleasure and without it, none of the others can occur. This is that twitch you feel in your cock and the ache that begins in your balls. Your heart beats faster, pumping blood to your dick, making it harder. Your mind shuts out anything but the sexual desire you now feel.
This is when foreplay occurs in sexual encounters, and during solo sessions it is when you start the porn video or dial your favorite Mistress for phone sex. Arousal sets the scene for the one of the encounter as well as the eventual orgasm. Quickies escalate arousal as time is limited, while a more sensual encounter builds desire slowly.
From Cocktease To Cockplay
The pleasure zone is the start of sexual play. Oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse are usually the play of choice – although handjobs, fingering, pegging, and other kinds of kinkplay are included. This is the main event, the star of the show, and generally the longest part of any sexual encounter.
While in the pleasure zone, arousal can ebb and flow. It can be slow and intimate, or hard and intense. For many, the sensations felt during sex can feel better than the climax and so they try to make this part of the experience last as long as possible (sorry premature ejaculators).
Edging For Maximum Pleasure
One way to stretch the pleasure zone is by pushing right up to the start of an orgasm but then quickly pulling back. This is riding the edge – as in riding the edge of the moment just before an orgasm. When you get close, your body tenses up in anticipation of release. By pulling away at the last moment, that tension has nowhere to go and so remains. Teasing your cock will build the tension even more, every time you get close. Repeatedly edging this way will cumulatively result in a huge, explosive orgasm.
Riding the edge is an optional step, but some enjoy the mind-blowing orgasm from a good cocktease and edging session. It may last a few minutes with only a couple edges, or it can go on for hours or even days (with breaks, of course). The emphasis in this case is on the constant teasing, both physical and mental, to keep arousal high and an orgasm only a few strokes away.
The Grand Finale (Or Is It?)
Orgasms are the climax of most sexual encounters, and when you edge your way to a finish they can be life-changing – but not always in the way you may think. It can be an intensely pleasurable experience for many people. You may discover that the edging phase, the control of pushing and pulling away form an orgasm, is more exciting than the orgasm itself. This is why experimentation is the key to unlocking your desires. Playing with edging, testing how long and how many times you can edge yourself before an orgasm, could open a new and more pleasurable sexual path.
And last, but certainly not least, the refractory period of sex is the time to regroup and recover from the (hopefully!) mind-blowing orgasm you just experienced. After care is not a must but it can enhance the overall experience, particularly when you’ve had the kind of mind-blowing orgasm that comes from a cocktease and edging session .
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